This has absolutely nothing to do with finances, however, it is burning a hole in my brain.
My four year old received a Leapster from my brother for his birthday. I am very anti-video games, especially for very young children like my son. I know in my heart that my brother shopped long and hard for a good gift and chose the Leapster especially for my son. Do I go against the grain of my laurels and allow my son to play with it? Do you think he'll become addicted to it and stop playing with all of his other toys altogether?
I am paranoid and fearful.
Young children and video games
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For example, it takes skill to not just to know the basics, but also be able to type well, and computers are so pervasive today that knowing how to use one is an essential.
Of course, you'll want to monitor certain things with small children, like making sure that they don't stray onto places they shouldn't be on the internet. Perhaps, with them, you'll want to not give them internet access at all until they're older.
But Leapsters are definitely fine. If you still have reservations, I would recommend to play with it yourself first. I think you may find it amusing like I did.
January 14th, 2008 at 03:22 pm 1200324139
My dh loves video games and I am not a fan. But the kids have some games on every gaming system my dh has, and the computer. We just REALLY limit their time on the games. It isn't much issue. They watch far more TV; more the problem. But the games, they really enjoy them, but they understand there is only so much they can play. I don't think they play them daily either. Never had much problem setting limits. They enjoy them but they aren't terribly addicting. PArticularly the leapster ones. Not really of the addictive variety. More of the learning variety, as mentioned.
OF course, for you, if you feel uncomfortable, that is your right. You do not have to let your son play with it.
As for our kids, they still prefer to "make believe" most of the time. We don't do very "all or nothing" parenting. Anything in moderation should really be okay.
January 14th, 2008 at 05:10 pm 1200330647
Play the game with him, or before him, you will prolly be reassured.